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The fiancee of a League Two footballer has offered an inside insight into her life on social media.
Kay Ludlow has amassed more than 40,000 followers on TikTok and has received more than 1 million likes on the social media platform discussing what it is like being with a professional footballer.
Ludlow's partner is Morecambe captain Farrend Rawson and she recently detailed her anxiety towards where the pair will end up when his contract expires at the end of the season.
'Dating a professional footballer has lots of pros and cons,' Ludlow explained on Tik Tok.
'With the transfer window just around the corner I'm starting to feel a little bit nervous about where we're gonna end up going, especially because we've got two little kids.'
Kay Ludlow has gained an online following sharing her experiences as the partner of a footballer
Ludlow has amassed more than 1 million likes sharing her experiences on social media
She revealed that her partner, Morecambe defender Farrend Rawson, had to leave for training just hours after the birth of their child
Ludlow also discussed her anxiety surrounding where her partner will move when his current deal expires
Rawson also is said to have missed his own brother's wedding due to football commitments
Ludlow also discussed the sacrifices players have to make that often requires them to be away from their families.
'Sometimes if they lose, some managers will bring the players in on a Sunday, it's normally a family day and one of their days off.
'So if you have any plans, you have to cancel them super last minute. He's missed our kids' birthdays. He trains on Christmas Day and he's missed his brother's wedding.
'This is just part of football, and it's something that I've become really used to after being with him for 10 years.'
Ludlow also revealed that her partner had been in contact with his manager just minutes after she gave birth to inform him that he would be able to train the following day.
'Footballers are entitled to paternity pay, but when you're dating a footballer, they don't want to lose their place,' she continued.
'My partner was up in training the next day. I was two hours away from home, had a new baby, was recovering from surgery and had no help.
The pair recently attended the English Football League Awards night together
'It was really emotionally quite tough. I've just given birth. I come out of the theatre. I'm just coming around from General anaesthetic and we're still in the recovery room.
'I look over and I say, Who are you talking to? Made this agreement that we were gonna tell our families together so I was fuming. I was like, Who are you talking to on the phone right now?
'It's 3 a.m. In the morning, he was on the phone to the manager to tell him that he would make training the next day.'
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